Stella Damasus has now admitted that Daniel Ademinokan is the love of her life
she hosts, "‘Undiluted with Stella Damasus’- Hard
talk. No barriers. No limitations" every
Monday, actress Stella Damasus brought Daniel
Ademinokan as her guest.
While introducing him, she said, ‘Today I have
Daniel Ademinokan as my guest and I consider
him the best Director out there. And for all those
who are dying to hear this, Daniel is the love of
my life’.
After that, she said the topic of the day was: ‘What
Men want Women to know in a relationship’.
Below are excerpts from the transcript of all they
discussed on air as documented by City People...
"STELLA: Are men are as emotional as women?
DANIEL: I believe that men are as emotional as
women but they are trained to be macho about it.
Men have more control over their emotions than
women. Men just don’t react to it the way women
do. Women tend to be (excuse the word)
dramatic.
STELLA: Do men like public display affection?
DANIEL : A man who is dating a woman and is
proud of her does like public
display of affection. He wants people to know this
is mine without appearing to be trying so hard.
STELLA: Does the woman have the right to feel
the same way?
DANIEL : Yes, every one in that relationship has a
right to feel that way. You don’t have to be rude
to other people for people to see. You shouldn’t
be ashamed to hold your person is public. Men
like PDA but not to the point where you make
other people uncomfortable. It is not everyone
your woman is talking to that she has something
with. Some women can be so possessive that
they become nags.
STELLA: Does the woman have the right to know
her man’s password?
DANIEL : If you’re married why should you have a
password? Every couple should have access to
each other’s phones. I don’t think any man or
woman should go snooping around their
spouse’s phones. If there’s trust, why should you
be snooping? Unless the person has given you a
reason to. Sometimes there are innocent
messages that people can interprete wrongly.
People misinterpret stuff but there should be no
issue with passwords.
STELLA: There’s this popular thing men always
say. You know me better than anyone else so you
know these questions aren’t from me. Men always
say they need space. How do you know when to
give him space?
DANIEL : Sometimes all these bottled up emotions
have a way of erupting. A woman who knows her
husband well and if their a couple who
communicate, you can sense when he wants to
talk. When a guy doesn’t want to discuss
something with you at a point in time, don’t force
it. When women want to talk, they really want to
talk. You should be able to read the man and
know when he wants to speak. I always advice
women, let the man have a life away from home.
STELLA: What do you mean by that?
DANIEL : Most women don’t want their men to
have lives outside of the home. A lot of women do
that but you need to give your man a space to
become a boy again. If you don’t let him have a
life, he’ll bottle all those emotions and he’ll erupt
someday. If all does is spend time at home, he’ll
breakdown and wont want to listen.
STELLA: How come men go out to look for call
wife material but when they go out there they
look for the sexy seductress?
DANIEL : A man who is looking for Mother
Theresa as a ife is probably a man who has plans
from the start. If you want an all in one package,
look for that. Marriage is like you having DirectTv,
they give you different plans based on what you
like.
STELLA: So do all men have to cheat because
they know all women don’t have what they need?
DANIEL : Not all men plan to cheat. Based on your
question, that is a man who has married a wife
for the sole purpose.
STELLA: Whenever I talk about sex, it’s always IN
THE MARRIAGE people. Do men like women to
initiate sex regularly?
DANIEL : A lot of men I’ve spoken to do like the
idea of women initiating sex. When you’re with
your wife, you want to feel the love and know that
she craves you and wants you”Sex is a 2 way
thing, the man gives, the woman takes. The
woman gives, the man takes. If a woman refuses
to be adventurous and the guy becomes bored.
He’ll look for it somewhere else. Men love sex.
There is nothing wrong with women being
adventurous. There are 50 shades of grey
adventurous and normal adventurous.
STELLA: Some men can’t phantom their thought
of women being adventurous?
DANIEL : Everything boils down to how the
marriage started.I read something where they
said couples should even schedule sex. It may
sound disgusting but they said it’s better than a
sexless life. Most of the best conversations
happen after sex. Sex is one of the quickest ways
to make your man happy. Some years ago
someone said his wife shouldn’t give him oral sex
and then use those lips to kiss his kids.
STELLA: In a few words, how do you think men
want to be treated by women?
DANIEL: Every woman should understand the man
they are married to or dating is still a kid at heart.
Most women fail to see that No man wants a
woman to come and be the husband in the house.
Most men play by the women's rules and then
when marriage comes, it changes to their rules.
When you’re coming into it. Lay your cards on the
table, save 10% for yourself and when you’re in it,
give 100%. There are rules there that some men
play by and once they get what they want, they're
out. That’s why I can sit here with you today
because I’ve been through it."
*Excerpts: City People*
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